http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms Have a question or know the answer? Get invaluable advice from moms here! en Fri, 10 Sep 2010 11:40:02 GMT vBulletin 20 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/images/misc/rss.jpg http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5924&goto=newpost Mon, 06 Sep 2010 04:05:00 GMT Sam will be 5 years old on the 22nd, I am just wondering, when did you move your child from a traditional carseat to a booster seat, and, was it just... Sam will be 5 years old on the 22nd, I am just wondering, when did you move your child from a traditional carseat to a booster seat, and, was it just a booster or a high back booster? He meets all the standards for being in a booster, and he already has a high back in Matthew's truck, but, he is still in a 5-point harness in my car. I just don't know if I am being overprotective or what, so I need some advise!! ]]> Questions and Answers MrsOBrien http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5924 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5915&goto=newpost Thu, 02 Sep 2010 18:39:17 GMT We cannot find a leotard for my teenager anywhere!! Any suggestions?! Her class is tonight, so I guess she won't be in full dress mode. ]]> Questions and Answers lavender26 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5915 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5914&goto=newpost Thu, 02 Sep 2010 15:15:32 GMT What sippy cup worked best for your transitioning child? What sippy cup worked best for your transitioning child? ]]> Questions and Answers ChristineCMoore http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5914 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5913&goto=newpost Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:39:38 GMT Hey guys, how do you feel about a procedure that gets rid of your period? I am working on a story about it for the Abilene Reporter-News (I freelance... Hey guys, how do you feel about a procedure that gets rid of your period? I am working on a story about it for the Abilene Reporter-News (I freelance for them at home) and would love some input from actual women. If you don't mind being quoted in the paper, leave me your thoughts along with your full name and town.

Specifically, the story is about endometrial ablation where the lining of the uterus is eliminated and it pretty much eliminates your period. This procedure is mostly for women who have problems with abnormally heavy bleeding. It's not for women who plan to have more children or for women who are already menopausal. There are no menopausal effects from the procedure since your ovaries are still there. However, you still have PMS, but no bleeding.

My doctor, Dr. Daniell, said that he has seen about half of his patients have their periods return in about 5 years, but their periods are still more manageable than they were before.

Anyway, share your thoughts if you don't mind being in the newspaper. I would love to hear from someone who has had this done.

If you would rather not post here, email me at kimberlyjgray@hotmail.com. I'll also be glad to talk to you by phone. if you let me know by email, I'll give you my number.

Thanks!
Kimberly Gray ]]> Questions and Answers cornuttgray4 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5913 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5910&goto=newpost Wed, 01 Sep 2010 21:54:37 GMT We have a V-Smile System that my boys had when they were younger. The system itself quit working, but we have 2 controllers and lots of games. My... We have a V-Smile System that my boys had when they were younger. The system itself quit working, but we have 2 controllers and lots of games. My daughter has found it and wants to play with it. So, I'm looking for a replacement. Any ideas on the best place to find a great deal?
I'm not opposed to buying a used one if anyone has one either. ]]> Questions and Answers manda http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5910 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5909&goto=newpost Wed, 01 Sep 2010 21:38:43 GMT I can't get my middle child to do anything!!! I have 3 boys, a 8, 6, and 3 year old!! He's the only one I have the most problems with!! I have a chore chart up my other two boys seem to do fine with it, he just thinks he'll do what he wants!!! I've tried spanking, time out, grounding, and talking nothing seems to work. Now that schools started, he's in the 1st grade and is lazy with his homework. It takes so much out of me to deal with him!!! He has one of those annoying personalitys, were he likes to pick on people, like a bully. I would like to hear options please!! ]]> Questions and Answers eleashacone http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5909 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5907&goto=newpost Wed, 01 Sep 2010 16:26:47 GMT Tommy's wants us to sit down and write out a 5,10 and 15-year plan. We have some general ideas of where we want to be financially, with work, with our kids, etc, but we've not put pen to paper to see how and when we can get where we want to be. (Lazy on my part.) ;)

Do you set up long-term goals and if so how detailed? ]]> Questions and Answers ChristineCMoore http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5907 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5906&goto=newpost Wed, 01 Sep 2010 04:30:08 GMT My bestest friends just came down for a visit and it was nothing but drama!!!! I mean I was soooooooo stressed, my stomach just kept getting upset!!!... My bestest friends just came down for a visit and it was nothing but drama!!!! I mean I was soooooooo stressed, my stomach just kept getting upset!!! I love them so much but I just wonder sometimes is it even worth it!! I feel like I even try to choose my friends wisely!! Help????????? ]]> Questions and Answers eleashacone http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5906 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5900&goto=newpost Mon, 30 Aug 2010 22:46:43 GMT What's your favorite leftover food?

Pizza and Chinesse are my favorites.... especially on lazy days like today. :) ]]> Questions and Answers ChristineCMoore http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5900 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5888&goto=newpost Sat, 28 Aug 2010 18:13:54 GMT I have recently gotten more and more gray hair. I cut my hair short about six months ago and it shows alot more since most of my gray hair is on the... I have recently gotten more and more gray hair. I cut my hair short about six months ago and it shows alot more since most of my gray hair is on the sides. I have off and on dyed it over the years but its never really been to cover gray as much as to just play with other colors. When I dye it though it always damages my hair and my hair grows fast so it has to be redone almost every three weeks. Not worth it. My mother has dyed her hair and ran from the gray for years. Saying that its the gray that she's trying to cover. I have had alot of people jokingly commenting on how old I'm getting cause my hair is going grayer more lately. I have no problem with this but I wonder how many people plan to grow old gracefully? Letting nature take its course on your bodies, I know we've talked about whether we would lift, tuck or things like that on other threads. But this one is simple. Hair would you allow your hair to gray as you age or are you pretty well a dye job gal? And if So when would you stop dying it?

I know older ladies that the dye looks great on them. very natural but on other women it looks fake and not so great and you know they are in their 70's so who they trying to fool.. lmao.. sorry thought I would throw that in.. ]]> Questions and Answers shellyh79606 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5888 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5875&goto=newpost Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:00:05 GMT As moms we are ALWAYS busy! But do you ever feel like you are taking on too many things at once?? And if you feel the need to cut back on stuff how... As moms we are ALWAYS busy! But do you ever feel like you are taking on too many things at once?? And if you feel the need to cut back on stuff how do you pick and choose what to say NO to??

I am having a difficult time choosing an activity to back out of. I dont want to feel like a quitter or feel like I have let anyone down, but I definately know I am more excited about doing one thing over another. UGH, I just dont know what to do! ]]> Questions and Answers BowMakingMama http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5875 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5870&goto=newpost Wed, 25 Aug 2010 23:45:00 GMT Do you find it easier to take advice from family or friends? Do you find it easier to take advice from family or friends? ]]> Questions and Answers ChristineCMoore http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5870 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5858&goto=newpost Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:01:29 GMT Aldersgate starts school on the 7th, and we have decided that we are going to give the kids a bedtime of 8 and 8:30. Problem is, we have never really... Aldersgate starts school on the 7th, and we have decided that we are going to give the kids a bedtime of 8 and 8:30. Problem is, we have never really had a bedtime set in stone, because Matthew works such late hours. Lexi is usually in bed by 9:30 and Sam is by 10:30. So, should I start now, putting them to bed eariler and eariler each night or what? I need suggestions! ]]> Questions and Answers MrsOBrien http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5858 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5855&goto=newpost Tue, 24 Aug 2010 02:24:07 GMT Being a second time around Mom I know what to expect in many ways but there are always the same challenges from the first time around. One of the... Being a second time around Mom I know what to expect in many ways but there are always the same challenges from the first time around. One of the biggest for me is my patience running out. Seems from the age of about 2 until about 6 they try to test every limit they can and it makes me batty. I was raised in an abusive home and when someone acted bad they got beat up. I never wanted to pass that down to my children so when I get frustrated I guess I beat myself up more than anyone else could for losing my cool. I know its normal and especially with the extra stress our family deals with having a family member in a wheelchair for the past 24 years. There seem to be so many stresses in my life:

Child with a physical disability that needs full time hands on care.

Starting a new job (although I love it added some stress)

Toddlerism.. omg need I explain.

Husband disagreements (parenting, money and other things that normal couples fuss about)

Managing my older daughters programs that she's on ( like a small business with all the paperwork)

Being the repair person, bill paying manager, food cooker, laundry finisher, answer all the questions person, cleaner, organizer and all the other hats mothers wear.

I feel like I stink at parenting some days because I can't seem to get a grip on my stress level and it seems to climb so quickly. I know I'm not alone and I know Christine will be first to reply to this..lol I just had a rough day and the wall hit back.

What do you do when your stress levels rise. The only thing I do is try to walk to another room but Maleah follows me alot and keeps pushing my buttons. So I have to sometimes lock myself in a room for a second. Take deep breaths and calm down. However when I'm backed against a wall I typically don't hold my cool well. I try to not let the kids see me venting but sometimes we all slip. Although it does sometimes help to look crazy to your kids.. stops them dead in their tracks.. they don't know how to react and know they have gone too far and then back down..lol ]]> Questions and Answers shellyh79606 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5855 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5837&goto=newpost Fri, 20 Aug 2010 07:17:01 GMT Ok ladies... I am looking just for some opinions. My husband and I are looking at taking a trip to Ohio beginning of Sept. We were wanting to take... Ok ladies...

I am looking just for some opinions. My husband and I are looking at taking a trip to Ohio beginning of Sept. We were wanting to take a detour down to Florida before coming home (mind you we are taking 2-12 off for travel). I have a 4 month old.

We were looking at airlines but we didn't know how it would work as we would probably need his carseat and his stroller (maybe if we go out and stuff). Did any of you ladies actually take these? If not, what did you do for your young one? He doesn't have too much support as he is just around 15lbs and is just now getting the hang of controlling his neck. We just notice it was a little cheaper to fly but the items we would need is stopping it.

Right now we are settling on driving and I'd like to go to Florida but if we drive, we might not be able to get there with a young on.

Just some advise or something please... ]]> Questions and Answers DWells06 http://abilenemoms.com/data/assets/boards/abilenemoms/showthread.php?t=5837